打ち解ける
うちとける
to open up, to become friendly
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Examples
新しい同僚とすぐに打ち解けた。
あたらしいどうりょうとすぐにうちとけた。
I quickly became friendly with my new colleague.
彼女はなかなか打ち解けない。
かのじょはなかなかうちとけない。
She doesn't open up easily.
お酒が入ると、みんな打ち解けて話し始めた。
おさけがはいると、みんなうちとけてはなしはじめた。
Once the drinks came, everyone relaxed and started talking freely.
Common patterns
- 打ち解けて話す
- to talk in a relaxed, open way
- 〜と打ち解ける
- to warm up to someone
- なかなか打ち解けない
- to be slow to open up
Memory tip
Think of 解ける as ice melting: the guard you keep up with strangers dissolves. It is intransitive, so the other person takes と, and it names the change, not the settled state — for that use 親しい.
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