腹を割る
はらをわる
to speak frankly; open one's heart
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Examples
腹を割って話し合おう。
はらをわってはなしあおう。
Let's talk frankly.
一度腹を割って話せば、誤解も解けるはずだ。
いちどはらをわってはなせば、ごかいもとけるはずだ。
If we talk openly once, the misunderstanding should clear up.
彼とは腹を割って付き合える仲だ。
かれとははらをわってつきあえるなかだ。
He and I are close enough to be completely open with each other.
Common patterns
- 腹を割って話す
- to talk frankly
- 腹を割った話
- a heart-to-heart talk
- 腹を割って付き合う
- to have an open relationship with someone
Memory tip
Almost always used as 腹を割って + a verb of talking, not on its own. It means dropping the polite surface and saying your 本音, so it fits colleagues and friends rather than a formal speech.
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