憚る
はばかる
to hesitate, to be afraid of
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Examples
人目を憚る。
ひとめをはばかる。
I shrink from being seen.
世間を憚って引っ越した。
せけんをはばかってひっこした。
Wary of what people would say, they moved away.
言うのも憚られるような話だ。
いうのもはばかられるようなはなしだ。
It is the sort of thing one hesitates even to mention.
Common patterns
- 人目を憚る
- to avoid people's eyes
- 世間を憚る
- to be wary of public opinion
- 憚りながら
- if I may be so bold
Memory tip
It means holding back because of what others will think, above all in 人目を憚る. The passive 〜するのが憚られる is common: 'it feels too awkward to do'. The proverb 憎まれっ子世に憚る uses an older sense, 'to thrive'.
Kanji in this word
- 憚Not in the N5–N1 kanji lists
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