弄ぶ
もてあそぶ
to toy with, to trifle with
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Examples
人の気持ちを弄ぶな。
ひとのきもちをもてあそぶな。
Don't toy with people's feelings.
彼はペンを指で弄びながら考えていた。
かれはペンをゆびでもてあそびながらかんがえていた。
He was thinking, fiddling with a pen between his fingers.
運命に弄ばれた人生だった。
うんめいにもてあそばれたじんせいだった。
It was a life toyed with by fate.
Common patterns
- 心を弄ぶ
- to trifle with someone's heart
- 運命に弄ばれる
- to be at the mercy of fate
- 言葉を弄ぶ
- to play with words
Memory tip
One word spans two registers: physically fiddling with an object in your hand, and morally toying with a person. The kanji 弄 shows hands turning a jewel over for amusement, which fits both.
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